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		<title>By: Theresa</title>
		<link>http://livesofwander.com/2010/01/13/aid-that-works/comment-page-1/#comment-3870</link>
		<dc:creator>Theresa</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 20 Jan 2010 13:58:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>To be clear, I&#039;m definitely not saying that giving money is a bad way to give. In fact, I think for most people that&#039;s the best way to give, especially when we&#039;re giving money to organizations that we feel are making a true difference. The trick is determining which of the many charities are good recipients for our money. And for each person that&#039;s different--based on what we believe is important and how we believe aid is best distributed. The desire to help another person, whether it be one you know or one you will never meet, is good, period, and should only be encouraged.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>To be clear, I&#8217;m definitely not saying that giving money is a bad way to give. In fact, I think for most people that&#8217;s the best way to give, especially when we&#8217;re giving money to organizations that we feel are making a true difference. The trick is determining which of the many charities are good recipients for our money. And for each person that&#8217;s different&#8211;based on what we believe is important and how we believe aid is best distributed. The desire to help another person, whether it be one you know or one you will never meet, is good, period, and should only be encouraged.</p>
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		<title>By: anne</title>
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		<dc:creator>anne</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 20 Jan 2010 05:16:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>you are right Theresa, most of us do not have your first hand experience,and our only way to help is to contribute to someone providing mosquito nets to a malaria ridden country.  We feel like we are helping and do not want or need to be paid in any form.  Last year during the ice storm we were lucky enough to have friends who gave us two empty apartments, that had heat and water for as long as we needed.  They would not accept any payment, they knew we would do the same for them.  we really really appreciated the apartments and cared for them.  There is also the tide program that provides free laundry to disaster areas.  Now I realize these are not global situations, but as for me, I want to help the world be a better and healthier place,so I depend on organizations to tell me where to contribute and what is needed in global areas  and do not expect the recipients to pay for them.  Like the Crusade for Children, you contribute to help Ky children.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>you are right Theresa, most of us do not have your first hand experience,and our only way to help is to contribute to someone providing mosquito nets to a malaria ridden country.  We feel like we are helping and do not want or need to be paid in any form.  Last year during the ice storm we were lucky enough to have friends who gave us two empty apartments, that had heat and water for as long as we needed.  They would not accept any payment, they knew we would do the same for them.  we really really appreciated the apartments and cared for them.  There is also the tide program that provides free laundry to disaster areas.  Now I realize these are not global situations, but as for me, I want to help the world be a better and healthier place,so I depend on organizations to tell me where to contribute and what is needed in global areas  and do not expect the recipients to pay for them.  Like the Crusade for Children, you contribute to help Ky children.</p>
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		<title>By: Matthew</title>
		<link>http://livesofwander.com/2010/01/13/aid-that-works/comment-page-1/#comment-3858</link>
		<dc:creator>Matthew</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 17 Jan 2010 23:13:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Now that I&#039;m talking to myself....

I&#039;m glad I now have evidence that even very excellent writers resist the idea that maybe there&#039;s something underneath the surface of a written product that is worth investigating. I&#039;ll refer back to this evidence when my &quot;working-to-one-day-be-maybe-possibly-an-excellent-writer&quot; student-writers resist returning to their texts.

I&#039;m not disagreeing on your main point - and god knows I don&#039;t have the first-person experience to argue some other model - but I am arguing that at least one reader (me!) is saying, &quot;Hey this is a very cool idea, but, from my perspective, you might want to give more thought to X and Y.&quot; 

&quot;Well self, those are two very good points. You should actually go have a conversation about this with someone who cares to listen. Why would I do that, self, when I could just have it with you, I mean me, I mean you, on Theresa&#039;s blog?&quot;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Now that I&#8217;m talking to myself&#8230;.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m glad I now have evidence that even very excellent writers resist the idea that maybe there&#8217;s something underneath the surface of a written product that is worth investigating. I&#8217;ll refer back to this evidence when my &#8220;working-to-one-day-be-maybe-possibly-an-excellent-writer&#8221; student-writers resist returning to their texts.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m not disagreeing on your main point &#8211; and god knows I don&#8217;t have the first-person experience to argue some other model &#8211; but I am arguing that at least one reader (me!) is saying, &#8220;Hey this is a very cool idea, but, from my perspective, you might want to give more thought to X and Y.&#8221; </p>
<p>&#8220;Well self, those are two very good points. You should actually go have a conversation about this with someone who cares to listen. Why would I do that, self, when I could just have it with you, I mean me, I mean you, on Theresa&#8217;s blog?&#8221;</p>
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		<title>By: Theresa</title>
		<link>http://livesofwander.com/2010/01/13/aid-that-works/comment-page-1/#comment-3857</link>
		<dc:creator>Theresa</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 17 Jan 2010 19:49:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think it&#039;s wrong to assume that economic currency is merely a Western way. I&#039;ve been to every continent but Australia and Antarctica, and I can tell you that it&#039;s the way of the world. In fact, many of the non-capitalist countries went to had the strongest emphasis on money and economic transactions. Perhaps seeing the world through an economic viewpoint started out as a Western way, but it has spread to most of the world. To assume otherwise is to look at the world through lenses that haven&#039;t been updated in decades. It actually smacks a bit of colonialism to me.  

In an academic bubble it sounds nice to say that human rights shouldn&#039;t cost anything, but that&#039;s not the way the world works. Sure, people should have access to food, health care, shelter, etc. But none of that is free, and nor must it be free. It should be accessible and priced at a point that people can afford, but to say that it should be free is to deny the reality of the way the world works. 

Anyhow, rhetoric doesn&#039;t interest me the way it does you, so I&#039;m done with semantics. I know that as the writer I mean much more than than economic value when I use the word value. The reader can read it however (s)he wishes. 

My main point is that the current system of aid, primarily based around the giving away of money and things, does not work. What we have witnessed as working is aid in which the community is invested (either financially or through time and human interest) and in which recipients of aid are treated as people who have something to bring to the table, not simply people in need of help. 

And I&#039;m done.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think it&#8217;s wrong to assume that economic currency is merely a Western way. I&#8217;ve been to every continent but Australia and Antarctica, and I can tell you that it&#8217;s the way of the world. In fact, many of the non-capitalist countries went to had the strongest emphasis on money and economic transactions. Perhaps seeing the world through an economic viewpoint started out as a Western way, but it has spread to most of the world. To assume otherwise is to look at the world through lenses that haven&#8217;t been updated in decades. It actually smacks a bit of colonialism to me.  </p>
<p>In an academic bubble it sounds nice to say that human rights shouldn&#8217;t cost anything, but that&#8217;s not the way the world works. Sure, people should have access to food, health care, shelter, etc. But none of that is free, and nor must it be free. It should be accessible and priced at a point that people can afford, but to say that it should be free is to deny the reality of the way the world works. </p>
<p>Anyhow, rhetoric doesn&#8217;t interest me the way it does you, so I&#8217;m done with semantics. I know that as the writer I mean much more than than economic value when I use the word value. The reader can read it however (s)he wishes. </p>
<p>My main point is that the current system of aid, primarily based around the giving away of money and things, does not work. What we have witnessed as working is aid in which the community is invested (either financially or through time and human interest) and in which recipients of aid are treated as people who have something to bring to the table, not simply people in need of help. </p>
<p>And I&#8217;m done.</p>
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		<title>By: Matthew</title>
		<link>http://livesofwander.com/2010/01/13/aid-that-works/comment-page-1/#comment-3856</link>
		<dc:creator>Matthew</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 17 Jan 2010 15:31:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Theresa,

There&#039;s obviously issues of meaning transaction from writer to reader through a text complicating things here (such it goes with reading and writing), but my reading of your argument as being couched in economics comes from two points in your text. First, you spend considerable time explaining the dangers of &quot;free&quot; stuff. I would consider &quot;free&quot; to be defined as &quot;free of economic charge.&quot; Second, you do say, &quot;That doesnâ€™t mean it has to cost much, or even anything. But, those in want or need of the item should have to â€œpayâ€ for it, whether with money or through barter of goods or services.&quot; 

I&#039;m not sure what my argument is. I don&#039;t even like the word argument. I don&#039;t think we are having an argument here. I think my line of thinking has two points, and they might be complicating to each other. First, I think there&#039;s a danger to viewing things primarily in economic terms. Second, it&#039;s hard for all of us to not view the world in economic terms because that&#039;s the current &quot;currency&quot; of most Western conversations. It seems to me that you are trying to complicate this idea of &quot;value&quot; as being defined economically, but you do that by returning to economic examples - such as the dangers of &quot;free.&quot;

I&#039;ve actually been thinking about issues of &quot;economic conversations&quot; in regards to my dissertation and the compensating of research participants. I&#039;m also teaching an article that looks at students choices to plagiarize as being motivated by their connection with an economic view of authorship and not an intellectual view of authorship. So, I&#039;ve been thinking about this topic alot, and your post made me think about it more. But I don&#039;t have my ideas all together. I&#039;m just beginning to consider, though, how much we talk about value in economic terms and, more problematically, that the move to discuss them in any other way is complicated by the omnipresent nature of these &quot;economic considerations&quot; in our thinking. 

So, how does one pay for something that does not cost anything? On the flip side, how do you provide value to an act without putting a price tag on it? How do those receiving the aid vocalize what is valuable to them? What happens when their value and our value do not match up, both in terms of content and form of &quot;transaction&quot;?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Theresa,</p>
<p>There&#8217;s obviously issues of meaning transaction from writer to reader through a text complicating things here (such it goes with reading and writing), but my reading of your argument as being couched in economics comes from two points in your text. First, you spend considerable time explaining the dangers of &#8220;free&#8221; stuff. I would consider &#8220;free&#8221; to be defined as &#8220;free of economic charge.&#8221; Second, you do say, &#8220;That doesnâ€™t mean it has to cost much, or even anything. But, those in want or need of the item should have to â€œpayâ€ for it, whether with money or through barter of goods or services.&#8221; </p>
<p>I&#8217;m not sure what my argument is. I don&#8217;t even like the word argument. I don&#8217;t think we are having an argument here. I think my line of thinking has two points, and they might be complicating to each other. First, I think there&#8217;s a danger to viewing things primarily in economic terms. Second, it&#8217;s hard for all of us to not view the world in economic terms because that&#8217;s the current &#8220;currency&#8221; of most Western conversations. It seems to me that you are trying to complicate this idea of &#8220;value&#8221; as being defined economically, but you do that by returning to economic examples &#8211; such as the dangers of &#8220;free.&#8221;</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve actually been thinking about issues of &#8220;economic conversations&#8221; in regards to my dissertation and the compensating of research participants. I&#8217;m also teaching an article that looks at students choices to plagiarize as being motivated by their connection with an economic view of authorship and not an intellectual view of authorship. So, I&#8217;ve been thinking about this topic alot, and your post made me think about it more. But I don&#8217;t have my ideas all together. I&#8217;m just beginning to consider, though, how much we talk about value in economic terms and, more problematically, that the move to discuss them in any other way is complicated by the omnipresent nature of these &#8220;economic considerations&#8221; in our thinking. </p>
<p>So, how does one pay for something that does not cost anything? On the flip side, how do you provide value to an act without putting a price tag on it? How do those receiving the aid vocalize what is valuable to them? What happens when their value and our value do not match up, both in terms of content and form of &#8220;transaction&#8221;?</p>
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		<title>By: Theresa</title>
		<link>http://livesofwander.com/2010/01/13/aid-that-works/comment-page-1/#comment-3855</link>
		<dc:creator>Theresa</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 17 Jan 2010 01:12:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Matthew,
1. I&#039;m not 100% sure what you&#039;re asking here. Of course, my view is based on my background. And of course, value doesn&#039;t have to be economic. I&#039;m not sure what to say beyond that. 
2. An act of caring is great. No argument there. That people try to help other people in any way, shape, or form is good. But here&#039;s the problem as I see it. There&#039;s a finite amount of aid available--in regards to both money and human assistance. We can continue to throw money at developing nations and hope that some of it sticks (is successful in our definition or theirs). Or we can take a good hard look at what works and what doesn&#039;t work, and make a decision to use the money wisely on what works. I think most people who care, who want to perform an act of caring (by giving money or things or by giving themselves) want their donation to go toward something that works. 
3. I don&#039;t think it is up to us to decide how things we donate are used per say, but I think that as responsible donors we should first determine what it is that a community really needs and then provide that. If they need fishing nets and not mosquito nets, maybe we should provide fishing nets. This all goes back to the idea of value. If the people we&#039;re donating to don&#039;t value an item (whether through lack of knowledge or because it does not work for them), then we&#039;re wasting our limited aid resources by giving it to them. (And as an aside, we should be considered about people using mosquito nets as fishing nets because of the environmental impact. Most are coated in permetherin, which can&#039;t be good for our lakes and oceans. And additionally, fishing with mosquito nets results in huge amounts of waste and destruction, because a mosquito net catches everything in its way...remember the holes are so small that mosquitoes can&#039;t pass through.)
4. Rhetorically, sure I see your point. But in application, I don&#039;t. I don&#039;t necessarily believe that everything should be &quot;paid&quot; for, at least in currency, but I do believe that for the aid to be effective it must be valued by the recipient. Everything has a cost though it&#039;s not always financial. Consider the health care debate here in the U.S. If we say that we think everyone is entitled to health care, if we value that, then we say that we&#039;re willing to pay for it (through taxes in this case). If we say that staying having children is important to us, if we value that, then we say we&#039;re willing to pay for them by giving up the freedom of being childless and by taking on additional responsibilities...emotionally, financially, psychologically, etc. 

I think the point that is being missed here is that by value I don&#039;t necessarily mean economic value. In fact, I hardly mean economic value; I&#039;m pretty sure that I never defined it as such above. The problem with aid, as far as I witnessed it first hand in numerous situations, is that we don&#039;t understand what other cultures value and then when we provide the items we think they need they are often not valued. I&#039;m not arguing that people &quot;owe&quot; us in any way for the aid we provide, or that we should put a price on aid. I&#039;m arguing that aid must have a value (to the receiver in particular) in order for it to be effective. We&#039;ve built too many schools in communities that don&#039;t have teachers, given away too many mosquito nets to people who don&#039;t understand their benefits, and given too many fish to people who don&#039;t know how to cast a line. Aid should empower, educate, and be of value to the recipient. Otherwise, we are just throwing money to the wind.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Matthew,<br />
1. I&#8217;m not 100% sure what you&#8217;re asking here. Of course, my view is based on my background. And of course, value doesn&#8217;t have to be economic. I&#8217;m not sure what to say beyond that.<br />
2. An act of caring is great. No argument there. That people try to help other people in any way, shape, or form is good. But here&#8217;s the problem as I see it. There&#8217;s a finite amount of aid available&#8211;in regards to both money and human assistance. We can continue to throw money at developing nations and hope that some of it sticks (is successful in our definition or theirs). Or we can take a good hard look at what works and what doesn&#8217;t work, and make a decision to use the money wisely on what works. I think most people who care, who want to perform an act of caring (by giving money or things or by giving themselves) want their donation to go toward something that works.<br />
3. I don&#8217;t think it is up to us to decide how things we donate are used per say, but I think that as responsible donors we should first determine what it is that a community really needs and then provide that. If they need fishing nets and not mosquito nets, maybe we should provide fishing nets. This all goes back to the idea of value. If the people we&#8217;re donating to don&#8217;t value an item (whether through lack of knowledge or because it does not work for them), then we&#8217;re wasting our limited aid resources by giving it to them. (And as an aside, we should be considered about people using mosquito nets as fishing nets because of the environmental impact. Most are coated in permetherin, which can&#8217;t be good for our lakes and oceans. And additionally, fishing with mosquito nets results in huge amounts of waste and destruction, because a mosquito net catches everything in its way&#8230;remember the holes are so small that mosquitoes can&#8217;t pass through.)<br />
4. Rhetorically, sure I see your point. But in application, I don&#8217;t. I don&#8217;t necessarily believe that everything should be &#8220;paid&#8221; for, at least in currency, but I do believe that for the aid to be effective it must be valued by the recipient. Everything has a cost though it&#8217;s not always financial. Consider the health care debate here in the U.S. If we say that we think everyone is entitled to health care, if we value that, then we say that we&#8217;re willing to pay for it (through taxes in this case). If we say that staying having children is important to us, if we value that, then we say we&#8217;re willing to pay for them by giving up the freedom of being childless and by taking on additional responsibilities&#8230;emotionally, financially, psychologically, etc. </p>
<p>I think the point that is being missed here is that by value I don&#8217;t necessarily mean economic value. In fact, I hardly mean economic value; I&#8217;m pretty sure that I never defined it as such above. The problem with aid, as far as I witnessed it first hand in numerous situations, is that we don&#8217;t understand what other cultures value and then when we provide the items we think they need they are often not valued. I&#8217;m not arguing that people &#8220;owe&#8221; us in any way for the aid we provide, or that we should put a price on aid. I&#8217;m arguing that aid must have a value (to the receiver in particular) in order for it to be effective. We&#8217;ve built too many schools in communities that don&#8217;t have teachers, given away too many mosquito nets to people who don&#8217;t understand their benefits, and given too many fish to people who don&#8217;t know how to cast a line. Aid should empower, educate, and be of value to the recipient. Otherwise, we are just throwing money to the wind.</p>
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		<title>By: Matthew</title>
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		<dc:creator>Matthew</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 16 Jan 2010 14:08:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>First, I&#039;m uncomfortable with the rhetoric of blog commenting in line with the issues Theresa mentions above. Instead of posting my &quot;edict of thoughts that are surely correct,&quot; I&#039;m just going to post the questions that are going throw my head. References to &quot;your&quot; are directed at Theresa (as the author), but are open to everyone. 

1. Isn&#039;t your whole argument centered in a Western capitalistic view of &quot;how things work?&quot;. Couldn&#039;t value be defined prior to or outside of economic systems, or, hopefully, as being of more importance to some economic system?

2. Wouldn&#039;t it be better to prioritize an act of caring - a simple, human expression - before trying to establish what value that act has, or worse yet, expecting the &quot;other&quot; to understand and operate within our system.

3. Who are we to decide how people use the materials that are donated? There&#039;s a danger here of us (as first-world, rationale Westerners) speaking &quot;as&quot; and/or &quot;for&quot; the people who are receiving the supplies. So what if they want to use the malaria net as a fishing net? Should we refuse their need to feed themselves and their families?

4. Isn&#039;t there a whole danger to this argument that if you say substituted, &quot;health care&quot; for aid, you&#039;d be making the basic argument that people should have to &quot;pay&quot; for heath care before they understand the value of it?

I don&#039;t want you to say you are blaming the victim here, but it sure seems that the issue here is with how First-World, Western ideas have power and currency in this world. Whole conversations of &quot;value,&quot; undermine the very human, very ethical principle that basic human rights and acts of &quot;care&quot; should not be bartered on economic scales. Is the problem their dependency or our &quot;guilt giving&quot;? 

It seems to me that the challenge of &quot;aid&quot; is negotiating cultural differences in regards to worldview and definitions of care and value. Asking &quot;them&quot; to operate through our worldview seems problematic, but also possibly effective.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>First, I&#8217;m uncomfortable with the rhetoric of blog commenting in line with the issues Theresa mentions above. Instead of posting my &#8220;edict of thoughts that are surely correct,&#8221; I&#8217;m just going to post the questions that are going throw my head. References to &#8220;your&#8221; are directed at Theresa (as the author), but are open to everyone. </p>
<p>1. Isn&#8217;t your whole argument centered in a Western capitalistic view of &#8220;how things work?&#8221;. Couldn&#8217;t value be defined prior to or outside of economic systems, or, hopefully, as being of more importance to some economic system?</p>
<p>2. Wouldn&#8217;t it be better to prioritize an act of caring &#8211; a simple, human expression &#8211; before trying to establish what value that act has, or worse yet, expecting the &#8220;other&#8221; to understand and operate within our system.</p>
<p>3. Who are we to decide how people use the materials that are donated? There&#8217;s a danger here of us (as first-world, rationale Westerners) speaking &#8220;as&#8221; and/or &#8220;for&#8221; the people who are receiving the supplies. So what if they want to use the malaria net as a fishing net? Should we refuse their need to feed themselves and their families?</p>
<p>4. Isn&#8217;t there a whole danger to this argument that if you say substituted, &#8220;health care&#8221; for aid, you&#8217;d be making the basic argument that people should have to &#8220;pay&#8221; for heath care before they understand the value of it?</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t want you to say you are blaming the victim here, but it sure seems that the issue here is with how First-World, Western ideas have power and currency in this world. Whole conversations of &#8220;value,&#8221; undermine the very human, very ethical principle that basic human rights and acts of &#8220;care&#8221; should not be bartered on economic scales. Is the problem their dependency or our &#8220;guilt giving&#8221;? </p>
<p>It seems to me that the challenge of &#8220;aid&#8221; is negotiating cultural differences in regards to worldview and definitions of care and value. Asking &#8220;them&#8221; to operate through our worldview seems problematic, but also possibly effective.</p>
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		<title>By: Susanne</title>
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		<dc:creator>Susanne</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 15 Jan 2010 19:12:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>wow Phil, that was insightful. Food for thought.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>wow Phil, that was insightful. Food for thought.</p>
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		<title>By: Phil</title>
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		<dc:creator>Phil</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 15 Jan 2010 17:27:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The problem with the type of aid you are describing Theresa, is that it requires such an investment from those providing the aid.  Giving away feeds the &quot;giving feels good&quot; and it it so simple.  It doesn&#039;t take as much time.  It doesn&#039;t require developing deep, trusting relationships with people.  If I give a mosquito net, I can feel good about myself and my mosquito net that is made off wood and vinyl siding and covers 1300 sq. feet.  

I use the term &quot;problem&quot; sarcastically.  I love that to hear this stuff from someone other than missionary who fully emerse themselves in a culture, fully investment themselves in a community and fully dedicate themselves to making a change for the better.  It is great to see that someone who just loves people and has travelled so broadly understands that true change takes more than handouts.  

Don&#039;t blame Victoria for her stance or her response.  She is the product of a society that has taught her that now is better, free is best and all giving is better than investing.  She is the product of a society that excuses everything by blaming it on the system (please catch the satire).  It i like the new Kaplan University commercials that has a professor apologizing for not adapting to the students, instead of expecting the student to adapt to the professor.  After all, those who have been through it and experienced it, should bend for and coddle those who haven&#039;t.  That is the real world works, after all.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The problem with the type of aid you are describing Theresa, is that it requires such an investment from those providing the aid.  Giving away feeds the &#8220;giving feels good&#8221; and it it so simple.  It doesn&#8217;t take as much time.  It doesn&#8217;t require developing deep, trusting relationships with people.  If I give a mosquito net, I can feel good about myself and my mosquito net that is made off wood and vinyl siding and covers 1300 sq. feet.  </p>
<p>I use the term &#8220;problem&#8221; sarcastically.  I love that to hear this stuff from someone other than missionary who fully emerse themselves in a culture, fully investment themselves in a community and fully dedicate themselves to making a change for the better.  It is great to see that someone who just loves people and has travelled so broadly understands that true change takes more than handouts.  </p>
<p>Don&#8217;t blame Victoria for her stance or her response.  She is the product of a society that has taught her that now is better, free is best and all giving is better than investing.  She is the product of a society that excuses everything by blaming it on the system (please catch the satire).  It i like the new Kaplan University commercials that has a professor apologizing for not adapting to the students, instead of expecting the student to adapt to the professor.  After all, those who have been through it and experienced it, should bend for and coddle those who haven&#8217;t.  That is the real world works, after all.</p>
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		<title>By: Theresa</title>
		<link>http://livesofwander.com/2010/01/13/aid-that-works/comment-page-1/#comment-3849</link>
		<dc:creator>Theresa</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 15 Jan 2010 01:55:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh how I love comments like yours, Victoria. Can I ask what you thought you were contributing to the conversation? I like insightful comments. I like supportive comments. And I even I like comments that challenge my view in constructive and substantial ways. But what mean-spirited and ignorant comments add to such conversations, I haven&#039;t yet determined. Are you having a bad day? 

I think most people understand that cost doesn&#039;t always mean dollars. Things cost time. Things cost effort. Something can cost you without you losing a single cent. And, as for why other types of aid can&#039;t work, I don&#039;t believe I ever said they can&#039;t. I said that in most cases handouts don&#039;t work. But I also I explicitly said that what works in one place doesn&#039;t work in another. 

Do you have any experience with aid that has helped you form your judgments? If so, maybe you should share your experience so people can understand where you are coming from rather than calling the insights of those who do have firsthand observations that they&#039;re willing to share &quot;lame&quot;. Just a thought.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh how I love comments like yours, Victoria. Can I ask what you thought you were contributing to the conversation? I like insightful comments. I like supportive comments. And I even I like comments that challenge my view in constructive and substantial ways. But what mean-spirited and ignorant comments add to such conversations, I haven&#8217;t yet determined. Are you having a bad day? </p>
<p>I think most people understand that cost doesn&#8217;t always mean dollars. Things cost time. Things cost effort. Something can cost you without you losing a single cent. And, as for why other types of aid can&#8217;t work, I don&#8217;t believe I ever said they can&#8217;t. I said that in most cases handouts don&#8217;t work. But I also I explicitly said that what works in one place doesn&#8217;t work in another. </p>
<p>Do you have any experience with aid that has helped you form your judgments? If so, maybe you should share your experience so people can understand where you are coming from rather than calling the insights of those who do have firsthand observations that they&#8217;re willing to share &#8220;lame&#8221;. Just a thought.</p>
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